I don’t really know why I’ve been thinking about hand jobs today, but here they are, in my head, bouncing up and down. They’re not very often talked about and somehow, I feel like they’re constantly accompanied by a feeling of sweet shame, so I decided to think about it a little more and figure it out, with the help of a few hot sex scenes.

It’s pretty weird because for me, hand jobs used to be kind of a cheap way of making a guy come quick. It also felt like an implicit criticism of my sexual skills. Why doesn’t he prefer to have penetrative sex? Am I not good enough? It made me feel like a slut – thank you for that, slut-shaming – who just had to jerk a guy off.

However, with time I became more confident and explored sexuality so that I would never feel like that again, but I still didn’t quite give hand jobs the respect they deserve. But since I’ve started this blog, I’ve been having more sex and I was able to appreciate the hotness of many more things in sex.

Grabbing a beautiful cock in your hand is one of the great pleasures in life and the sweet shame that comes with it makes me enjoy it even more, sneaking into a guy’s pants in a public place, looking him in the eye and watching his whole body melt in your hand. It can create some kind of funny complicity between two people.

Of course, I also enjoy having it done to me. I remember being 18, sleeping at the back of the car of my ex-boyfriend’s parents while they were driving back home and my ex jerking me off, repeatedly, his hand hidden by the coat which acted as a blanket.

Aaanyways, here are a few scenes that illustrates the sweetness, hotness and kinkiness of hand jobs. Check it out.

Sneaky and forbidden

It is usually hotter when the circumstances allow it to be: in public, in an unknown place, in a rush… It creates the perfect environment for a dirty, spontaneous play date.

Watch this scene from Six Feet Under. Brilliant.

Naive and fun

This is a scene from Nick and Nora’s Infinite Playlist with Kat Dennings and Michael Cera. I love them both – ok, I probably love her a bit more – and they look really sweet in this video.

Motivational

The awesome Jenny Slate is giving quite the energetic and ego-boosting hand job in House Of Lies.

Freeing

You can say all you want about Kristen Stewart – I have no opinion since I literally never think about her at all – but this scene is quite special. A road trip with two guys… She’s sitting in the middle and stroking both their cocks at the same time in a very liberating and inspiring sandwich.


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Seducing

Oh I miss True Blood’s Jason Stackhouse and his sexy silliness. He couldn’t say no to Sarah’s hand slowly diving into the water, allowing us to picture what is going on under there.

> No embedding on this video so go check it out .